Vasectomy done by public hospital... LMAO...

a) He wants to draw your attention?

b) The worm still misses your stick.

c) The shit wants to waste your day?

d) The bacterium does not support to understand that for YOU he has always been a slave, or a NOTHING.

e) He wants to pretend that he plays as well with the current Owner and not miss the slightest lack of discipline that you imposed.

f) The microbe wants to pretend that some crazy is satisfied with his microscopic dick.

g) The idiot will never be able to discover a Domme with Your authority and passion.

h) That little stick discovered you missed a giant dildo in his rectum * lol.

i) The worthless being can not stand to miss Your voice, Your punishment and the only parts that he could touch of Your body.

The compatibility

There are many ways of practicing SM depending on people who do, just ask, observe, question. See if the method of domination of the Master fits your expectations. Always remember that a true Master adapts to their slave, not vice versa.

Trade

SM is an exercise of sexuality, love and pleasure. Do not believe in contracts for profit or servitude that trade between you and your Dominator. You will pay the pleasure you receive with pleasure that you provide. Do not admit having to pay or receive for any SM practice, unless you're a professional, of course.

Corporal punishment

Penalties are part of SM play, but when the Master is inexperienced or unprepared, can cause psychological damage to the slave, merging the punishments given for pleasure, with punishments imposed for wrongful acts. It is the duty of your Master punish you when you misbehave, or when acting in violation of the rules, but you should always be informed of how and why the punishment is happening, and to understand it as something necessary. The Dominator who can not distinguish punishments  inherent in the SM should be seriously questioned, and perhaps informed about it. Do not be afraid to teach something to the Master. They will learn with you as you with them.

About experiments

Obviously, if the Master has not yet mastered certain technique, you'll be the guinea pig potential for them to train and learn, then, ask how much ready they are to test it on you, and establish a safe word with them (see information about) so that the game can be stopped if they do not occur as planned and it does not result in an accident. Require security, you're not a toy. Refuse to participate in the experiment if the master refuses to give you the explanation you deserve. Pseudo-rulers believe they can do all that come on the net or in specialized publications, without first informing or even study the technique. Stay away from dominating that mock the word "study" when dealing with SM.

About feelings

A true Master is interested in anything that they cause, for all the sensations and feelings of their slave, particularly after one session. Always be honest, tell the truth. Never lie just to please the Master. If a teacher does not seem concerned for your feelings is because  it may be a pseudo-Master case.

Abuse

You do not have to be a submissive 24 hours a day if not give you pleasure. There are cases of pseudo-rulers who abuse their slaves out of the erotic context. If not part of your fantasy, not lend yourself to this role. A true Master respects and admires their servant.

Final point

And finally, it is quite difficult to distinguish a novice from a bad Master Teacher, especially if you like submissive, is also a beginner. Encourage them to improve. If you find that a master has all the characteristics of a good Dominator, besides being an ethical and well intentioned, learn with them. Dialogue enough and initiate each other. Remember that nobody was born knowing.

Nowadays with the advent of the net it is increasingly common for men and women who have difficulty in relating to outside the network, making themselves out to be dominant and dominated with clear goal of achieving just easy sex. Believing in these pseudo-dominant a submissive can not reject, and with no experience or ethics, they throw the sadomasochistic practices not knowing the serious physical risks, emotional and psychological aspects to which they expose themselves and their partners.

The profile of the SM practitioner

As the first point, it is imperative to note that the practitioners of SM (the real practitioners in real life at least) are generally intellectually sophisticated, and unlike what one might expect, given the fact that the SM is considered a sexual perversion by WHO, are also people morally refined. Therefore, always suspect of vulgarity (when free and disproportionately during an initial approach for example) and the avarice of cultural conversations during the first test.

Referential SM

A true Master stimulates his servants to fetch, get acquainted and learn more. A Master knows to learn from his slave, submissive, and as is their duty to be a source of new information relevant to their Lord. When a Dominator tries to become the only standard SM slave denotes insecurity and often, a certain amount of ignorance.

Rights of a submissive

What is your right you should demand, not beg. Have a respectful attitude always, but keep yourself informed about your rights as much as about your duties. Yes, you have rights. Require them. Make them from scratch. Argue with your candidate of Dominator your traumas and frustrations, and do not allow that your sacred territories are invaded. This includes your own body. Require the use of condoms, lubricants, asepsis of sex toys, hygiene and all that you find necessary for your physical and emotional health to be preserved. It is a duty of your Dominator to respect you as much as you respect them. If the Master refuses to respect it, rethink the relationship.

Limits

Expose from the beginning with clarity all your limitations, though internally you may some time change your mind regarding them. "At that" moment you know they exist, and breaking them must be a gradual process within "your" time, not the Master´s.

Pleasure

A Master receives and gives pleasure. SM is an exercise of pleasure, and you deserve it. Ask yourself if you are having the pleasure that is sought to launch this game, and always expose your feelings to who dominates. A Teacher who refuses, or do not care about your pleasure is not a real Master.

Confidence

A Master must trust you as much as you must trust them. Confidence is a key ingredient in SM practice, and this is the sister of sincerity. Never lie to your Dominator. Always be truthful when you speak, act or feel. These are powerful weapons for your Master to give you pleasure, it seems, telepathy is not the most efficient form of communication today. Always be objective to put the finer points that may arise. A true Master knows to separate the criticisms of the disrespectful attitudes on your part. A true Master do not feel need to be feared.

Security

If you need to feel secure about the personal data of your Dominator, ask them. Real names, phone numbers, ID cards are not guarantees of anything, but if they do not mind giving them a lot already is proof that they are ethical, although this is not a fundamental point here, because many sometimes may omit such information for other reasons. Before you contact have a real long talk with your search Dominator. SM is communication, and if the Master requires a meeting very quickly, before you know each other well enough, you can be dealing with one of the cases cited in the introduction to this text. Be careful about the choice of location, and keep data from which will be with a third person. It is not necessary to give details of the contents of your meeting, but it is important that at least someone else knows where you are if things do not go exactly as predicted.

Before you contact me, read this post and you will find that it answers many of the questions you may have about me...

• Unlike some other Dommes, I am a true SM Mistress - this is not a job for me. I have been doing BD/SM in my private life for some time. I like what I do. The men and women who come to me for training and discipline are not simply a source of revenue to me - I am interested in their needs and their fantasies.

• I am the Mistress, it's my dungeon, I am in charge, and that's not negotiable. Be prepared to be very polite and very well-behaved.

• This will not be a contest, a challenge, or a competition to see who is "more dominant." If your fragile ego cannot handle that, stay at home.

• I will not do scat/brown showers. (maybe to very special slaves).

• I do not do permanent body modification - permanent piercing, scarification, branding - until I know you well.

• I don't do strangulation or choking scenes. This is extremely dangerous. I will do very mild forms of breath control play.

• I will do long bondage scenes under some circumstances, but I will not tie someone up and leave them alone for long periods. This is not a very safe thing to do.

• I am just interested in well-educated, high class, intelligent people.

• And I never, ever switch - so DON´T EVEN ASK!

SEND ME YOUR SLAVE FORM COMPLETE TO "HOTBRAZILIANGIRL1980 AT GMAIL DOT COM", WITH AGE, PROFESSION, HOBBYS, WHERE UR FROM AND WHERE U LIVE NOW, HEIGHT, WEIGHT, EYES AND HAIR COLOR, LIMITS, PAST EXPERIENCES, IF YOU HAVE ACCESSORIES, EXPECTATIONS AND TWO PICS (FACE AND BODY).

Ps.: 1. Don´t think this is an easy sex game. It´s real BDSM and I have the control and don´t add my msn without my permission. Will be just waste of time…

2. And for the ones that ask: "R u real? can u show yourself on the webcam to prove ur real?" the answer is: Yes I am real and don´t need to prove anything to anyone...

Here a little talk I had to a wanna be slave. It´s in portuguese but I translated for you to understand:

Início da Sessão: sábado, 20 de fevereiro de 2010 (Session start: Saturday, February 20th 2010)

(17:17) joseluizconceica: oi (Hi)
(17:17) joseluizconceica: tudo bem (how are you)
(17:19) joseluizconceica: quando vai me comer (when are you going to eat me)
(17:31)   MAGNIFICENCE: quer q eu te coma? (want me to eat you?)
(17:32) joseluizconceica: sim quero (yes I do)
(17:32) joseluizconceica: ou me exibir ferrando meu cu pra vc (or show myself fucking my ass to you)
(17:33)    MAGNIFICENCE: hum
(17:33)    MAGNIFICENCE: quem sabe um dia vc mereça (maybe one day you deserve that)
(17:33) joseluizconceica: e oque tenho que fazer (what do I have to do for that)
(17:33)    MAGNIFICENCE: por enquanto nada (nothing for now)
(17:34) joseluizconceica: hun
(17:34) joseluizconceica: abre a cam (open the cam)
(17:34)    MAGNIFICENCE: como? (what?)
(17:34)    MAGNIFICENCE: esqueceu quem dá as ordens? (forgat who gives the orders?)
(17:36) joseluizconceica: me perdoe minha princeza (forgive me my princess)
(17:36) joseluizconceica: oque quer de mim (what do you want from me)
(17:36)    MAGNIFICENCE: por enquanto nada (nothing for now)
(17:36)    MAGNIFICENCE: preciso descansar tenho trabalho mais tarde (I need to rest, have to work later on)
(17:36)    MAGNIFICENCE: e princesa n, sou rainha pra vc (and I am not princess, I am queen for you)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: sim minha rainha (yes my queen)
(17:37)    MAGNIFICENCE: melhor assim (better like this)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: vou amar enfiar no meu cu pra vc ver (I will love to fuck my ass for you)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: beber minha porra (drink my cum)
(17:37)    MAGNIFICENCE: logo nos falaremos (we will talk soon)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: meu xixi ou oque vc mandar (my pee whatever you order me to do)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: beijao (Kiss)
(17:37)    MAGNIFICENCE: até logo (see you soon)
(17:37) joseluizconceica: ate (see you)
(17:3 joseluizconceica: ate me bater ma machucar etal (even hit myself or hurt myself)
...

First I need to see if he deserves my attention and then... game time...

As promised yesterday I will write today about my second new toy from TheAdultToyShoppe sexshop: The Bender Dildo Flesh.

The first thing that called my attention about this dildo is that it has a vertebrae spined core that allows us to bend it into any position we want. This is perfect for a nice G spot massage and also for discovering different orgasmic points to massage :-) !

It also has nice sensual veins that oh give  great orgasmic sensations and its skin texture gives the feeling of the true thing.

I am in love with this toy and gave my toy the nickname of Chuck cause it is really a killer toy… hehehe…